Thursday, May 15, 2008

Being a woman

I was browsing through a friend's abandoned blog, and came across a past entry, which seemed to touch me, ever so significantly. I think I was probably forwarded it in my email some time ago, nonetheless I'm copying and pasting it here. Perhaps now I know what to answer to my kids the next time I am asked the question... "Because I'm a woman"


"Mom, why are you crying?" he asked his mom.

"Because I'm a woman" she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.

His mom just hugged him and said, "and you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason" was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to GOD. The man then asked, "GOD, why do women cry so easily?"

GOD said:"When I made women she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. This same sensitivity helps her to make a child's boo-boo feel better and shares in her teenagers' anxieties and fears.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

I gave her a tear to shed, it's hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed. It's her only weakness; it's a tear for mankind."



Nadia said...

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh beautiful kak D!

myheartbleeds said...

No one should dictate when we should and should not cry, right? I like the last para.

Anonymous said...



I always thought it is the hormones!!


MULAN said...

lovely.. happy mother's day sis..!!

Kak Teh said...
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Kak Teh said...

I cry at the slightest excuse and no one must question why.

(sorry, that was me up there!)

kc said...

crying are womens' weapon of mass destruction!

take care D as always...mmuahh!

zah said...

Dear D, how true.. tkcr..

raggedyanne said...

hihi, i know whose blog it is! the itchy doc is prolly too bz with the new job and life right now